How to Prevent Becoming "the other girl", or is it sometimes better to be "The other girl"

1. Be a stupid slut and wear your skirt so far up your legs that everyone can see your underwear when you walk up a flight of stairs

2. It’s all about cleavage. If you don’t have any, buy a super duper push up bra that’ll fake the "I have huge boobs" look

3. While doing the above, ensure that your shirt is low hanging and bares a lot (your lacy bra). To make matters worse, bend over a lot to reveal that already revealed lace, making sure that everyone can see that you’re wearing nice lingerie

4. Play hard to get, but not: If you know what I mean. Playing it mean won’t always keep him keen, so why not just be a slag and do your thing?
5. If you’re reading this and all you see in it is yourself, take a step back and look at yourself.

How about, you look on the other side of things.

1. If a guy wants you to be "the girl" and not "the other girl", you’ll be that. If he doesn’t want you to be "the girl", no amount of slutting around will help. It’ll just secure you a space as "that girl" and you’ll find yourself used.

2. If you believe all of the above you’re disillusioned. Talking to my guy friends, I managed to squeeze out the fact that of course they’re going to enjoy all of this. It’s in their nature, they’re male. They’re supposed to be driven by sexual desires. However, not one guy that I’ve talked to has told me that any of this will make the above mentioned female "The girl". Because when you’re a dirty little slut, you become everyone’s girl. No guy is going to start believing you’re the girl of his dreams, the girls he’s been waiting for and the girl he’s going to love eternally because he’s going to think that if you’ve got so little self respect that you’re so easy for him to get with, you’re just as easy for other guys to get with.

3. Wear sexy clothing. Wear it to impress. Be sexy, be young, be beautiful. But you must be this for yourself. Dress in what makes you feel comfortable. Why do all females do this? Why do i do this? Why do we all dress in clothing that makes us feel cheap and uncomfortable to impress guys? Starting today I’m taking a stand against this. I will wear only what makes me feel beautiful. If you feel beautiful, generally this radiates off of you and you look beautiful. The confidence that you feel is catchy, and people can sense it. We’re all more drawn towards those who are happy to be bouncing around in their own skin (and their most comfortable clothing).

4. If you’re not the one, don’t go to extremes. Desperation can bomb onto the best of us, and at some stage of our lives were all going to feel as if we need to alter who we are for the sake of love. Don’t. Just don’t. Everyone was made unique for a reason. If you’re meant to be with someone and if someone loves you, they won’t try and change you. If you’re insane, that’s awesome. If you’re a total nerd, that’s super cool. What works for you is all that matters. Ultimately, if you change you’re more than likely going to hate yourself for it.

Stick to being the way you are, because everyone is perfect in their own way and if the person you love doesn’t like it that way, then they are obviously not “The one” and you should be quite happy just being “the other girl”.